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Anti-gay youth group leaders try to keep a girl from her gay dads
This incident still angers me for many reasons. My dads are gay, and when I was younger, someone at my school invited me to a youth group event. When I got there, they spent most of the time talking about how gay marriage is wrong, and it made me really uncomfortable. So I said, “I’m not feeling good, I’m going to call my dad to come and get me.” When the classmate that had invited me told everyone that I have two dads and they are gay, all hell broke loose. The youth group leaders freaked out and said that I wouldn’t be calling my dads. In fact, they did not want me to leave. They tried to get me to see that my dads were sinning, but I told them I wanted to leave and that I disagreed with what they were saying. I remember being in tears, scared and wanting to go home.
I went into the bathroom and called my dads. They were pissed and came to pick me up. My one dad called the police when they got there, as the youth group leaders would not let them get me. The police went into the church and brought me out. Charges were not pressed but I refused to go to any more of those youth group events. Thinking about it now still bothers me, I shake when I think about it. – Name withheld by request
This fucking infuriates me
Liv just shot me a text from the bus on her way to work. She saw a man on the bus with his baby daughter get interrogated by a woman who suspected him of being a pedophile. Ill post the texts Liv sent me
Basically he got on the bus downtown and first of all no one got up to fix the bus seat then the bitch across the aisle moved over at first I thought they were a couple until he started laughing.
I turned my music down to listen and she was asking him to see some sort of proof that it was his kid and he started freaking out asking who the fuck she was to ask that and he showed her a picture on his phone that I assume was a picture of him with the baby or something.
Then she started being like, “well where is her mother?” “It’s weird to see a dad with a little girl like this.” She’s only a year and a half old at best, “where’s her mom?” And the guy got up, took the breaks off the stroller and pulled the cord and was like, “for your information her mom’s a crack whore living on the street. I’m all she has. I’m sorry you think it’s weird to see a man with a baby, but not all women were meant to be moms, I don’t have to put up with your shit this is fucking ridiculous. This girl is my life and world go fuck yourself!” Then he got off the bus.
Then she sat there shaking her head and being like ”men can’t parent, why’d he freak out WTF I bet that kid isn’t even his”
I wish sexist, stupid bitches like this were less common than they are.
-Morgan with Livs texts
Complete insanity
This is exactly why so many grown men are paranoid about being around children; false allegations and the presumption of male guilt. One crazy misandrist gets her panties in a bunch and there is a police car waiting for you.
Imagine that the guy is an honest and decent guy just helping out a single mother by looking after her kid. Wait, right there did you think to yourself, “well he could do something wrong. He could be a pedo.” That. That right there the presumption that’s what it’s all about. He could, so we should assume the worst, and act as if he is.
Imagine for a second that the guy is absolutely a saint and has never done anything wrong. The child is not his, he’s just a trusted friend. Now how the hell is he supposed to explain things to a misandrist like that lady on the bus? He can’t. He is presumed guilty and he will be talking to police very shortly and he will very likely end up handcuffed in the back of a police car, scared to death that things will get straighted out.
Millions of men live in fear of being around children even there own because of shit like this. How can men be equal partners in raising children when they can’t be around children without some misandrist freaking out?
I personally know men who have had to push younger relatives out of their lives because it just to risky to be around children without constantly having to have a witness. It only takes one person to make a comment and suddenly the guy has to prove in a court of law, that beyond the shadow of a doubt that absolutely nothing happened and its all because of this automatic assumption of a man’s guilt.
There are a hell of a lot better ways to protect children from predators than automatically assuming that every man is a pedo. Prejudice is never justifiable.