arahir:

when one father dies, you give the Father Clothes to a boy seven years older than you in school and make him the Famther and now you have another Father this is how parenthood works… then the new Father will look at you into your eyes and say “how did you know to come save me?” and touch you upon the shoulder and hug you to his chest and this is how you know the Father has accepted his role as canonical dadganes. now the Father is 4 years older only than his canonical Songanes but this is right and good… male friendship is toxic… lgbt is cancelled during pride… there is only Son and Dad…  truly i have been a Father five times i am tell you this is how it works