"why dont you just give him a chance"
idk because im not physically or mentally attracted to him and ‘but he likes you’ or ‘but hes really nice’ isnt going to change the fact that im not interested
Damn, I don’t think women know how much that really hurts
The thing that really gets me when men say stuff like this is…
do you really think women haven’t experienced rejection? of course they have. and yet they don’t feel entitled to be “given a chance” because they are “really nice”
in fact, women are held up to ridiculous standards of attractiveness and something as simple as not shaving your armpits or legs will completely eliminate you from the dating pool of most men no matter how smart, beautiful, talented or amazing you are