Hold on.

No.

At ANY TIME, ANYONE may refuse sex to ANYONE. You don’t have to fuck someone just because you said you would. That’s like saying a woman has to have sex with a man because she was flirting with him, and that she’s “a tease” if she doesn’t. As someone who almost lost his virginity and changed his mind at the last minute because it didn’t feel right, I insist that “it feels weird to me” IS AS LEGITIMATE A REASON NOT TO HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE AS ANYTHING ELSE.

Yes, not having sex with someone because you found out they used to not be a woman is pretty shitty, but unfortunately that’s their damn prerogative. If someone is no longer attracted to you, even if their reasoning is flawed, they do not need to follow through.

You are allowed to refuse sex to anyone for any reason. Now heres an even more insane idea, you’re allowed to reuse to date someone for any reason.

If you’re a straight man and you don’t want to fuck someone else with a penis that’s fucking reasonable. If you’re talkin post-op that’s another story and shouldn’t be an issue, but not wanting to fuck someone with the same genitals as you if you’re straight is 100% reasonable.

Even if it is post-op, anyone has the right to refuse anything regardless of the circumstances. If someone doesnt feel comfortable having sex with someone who wasnt born a biomale/female that shouldnt be an issue, either.