If men really hated women as much as feminists like to claim, how come most of them end up marrying and spending their life with one?
Because women do the lion’s share of housework. (The “second shift”)
Because men are socialized to see women as a trophy to be pursued. (The trophy wife/sugar baby/mistress)
Because you don’t have to love something to want it, especially when the benefits to you are clear.
You could turn this around easily:
If men love women so much, why do so many husbands beat/murder their wives?