I was called a Fat Bitch today. So instead of my usual “sushi rants” text post, I made a video post about it. Because fuck any man who thinks this is okay, that this is acceptable. Fuck this. Fuck that. I’m so furious I’m in TEARS.
EDIT: I am more than okay with this being reblogged since it’s fucking important, dammit. It’s not a fandom rant. It’s a rant about how society trains women to be resizeable fucktoys for men and if they dare step outside that line of “PERFECT PHOTOSHOP MODEL” then they’re “fat bitches” that men can’t fantasize about and it’s not okay. It is NOT okay.
I should not have to “act mature” by ignoring something that is disgusting. It is not about my being “fat” it is about the fact that men feel it is perfectly within their rights to demean a woman for not being what they would want to fuck. In this case? “FAT” was being used to insult me for not being what he wanted. He pulled up alongside me in his car and shouted fat bitch then drove off as fast as his car could go, clearly not intent on sticking around.
How dare you march in on my disappointment in his behavior and tell ME to be the better person by responding MATURELY to what he displayed as infantile immaturity! NO. I WILL NOT. I WILL NOT “BE BETTER BY BEING QUIET.”
"You’re furious because not everyone finds you attractive." YOU HAVE MISSED THE POINT. ENTIRELY. The point is not everyone needs to! The point is RESPECT. THE POINT IS THAT NOT ME OR ANY OTHER WOMAN SHOULD EVER HAVE TO DEIGN TO “IGNORE” THIS BULLSHIT FROM ANYONE.
MATURE? IF MATURE IS CONFRONTING A REAL AND DISGUSTING ISSUE RATHER THAN ACCEPTING IT QUIETLY AND WALKING AWAY THEN YOU HAVE NO CONCEPT OF WHAT MATURITY IS.
Get out. Just. Get out.
Are you even a real person? I’m asking you seriously. If you’re equating my angered, disgusted rant on youtube with “chasing down a car with a chainsaw” in regards to rational reactions, then you have far more issues than you realize.
Look. I’m not sure who hurt you or why you feel the need to barge in on someone who is upset to tell them to get over it…
But I feel sorry for you. Your complete lack of empathy likely means you spend a lot of time angry because you simply do not understand how people could be upset about the things that they are upset about.
This isn’t a simple complaint. This is an issue. This is a rot that is centered well below the line of acceptability and yet people are forced time and time again to accept this kind of behavior and to “ignore it.”
If we continue to ignore this behavior we are accepting it as “just being something that happens!”
I refuse to remain silent when I am attacked no matter how meaningless it may be to an outsider who thinks ignoring it is a simple matter.
My video is more about the people who this would absolutely destroy emotionally because they cannot feel the confidence that they deserve. Society keeps so many people down with the enforcing of “ignore insults.”
If you ignore something you are allowing it to persist.
I am taking this behavior, this disgusting bloated tick on society, and I am destroying it. I am telling it that not only does it have no power over me, but that it is okay to be angry about the fact it exists.
Lashing out at disgusting behavior does not make me or anyone else weak and I would kindly appreciate it if you would attempt to understand rather than to silence people who have been hurt or are upset at those who are being hurt.
If you want to back pedal then back pedal with grace you infant. Admit you shouldnt’ have made the post because you can’t back up your fetid, ignorant shitpile of excuses. I’m sick of people like you.
You’re more than happy to pounce on someone who is angry about injustices in this world by decrying them as “a whiny bitch.” You dehumanize someone to the point where they are a dog when they have a point.
When I call someone an animal at least it’s because their behavior is comparable to one. The man who called me a fat bitch did so because I wasn’t a sexually compelling mate to him. I don’t even know this man. He just feels it’s okay to say “I WOULDN’T HAVE SEX WITH YOU” in the most base manner he can. I wouldn’t have sex with him, either! I don’t know him and his behavior makes it VERY apparent we would be incompatible!
But you know what? I take back him a dog. I take back calling him an animal. Why do I take it back?
Because you can train an animal to behave, to stop unwanted behaviors that could endanger or hurt others. You can train animals to respect you. But you can’t tell a piece of shit who demeans you to stop without others leaping over fence to tell you “JUST IGNORE IT OKAY GOD YOU WHINING COW, STOP DEHUMANIZING ALL MEN YOU BITCH.”
The man who demeaned me today wasn’t even an animal. He was scum.
So, yeah, back pedal faster. As long as you’re going backwards I won’t have to deal with you ever again.
Thank you, sushinfood, for re-affirming my fears of feminists.
yeah people who want to be treated with basic decency without having it treated like a chore sure are frightening huh
i dont know you sushinfood, but you are flawless and i look up to you.