tacentdisease:

mineapple replied to your post:mineapple replied to your post:I think my mum just…

ah. well, ignore her to the best extent you can due to her being your parental figure. >:( because family is sometimes dumb as hell. also i hope you werent hurt by what she said because it was kind of ridiculous <:P

I t   h u r t .

I stood up for myself, and she insulted me.
I never know what she wants from me anymore. I eat too much, then too little. She encourages me to become more confident, then shoots me down when I try to get my points in and say my rights.

I don’t know what to do.
Especially when she makes threats to kick out my girlfriend.

sigh, yeah, my dads a lil like that, too. where they want you to do things, but when it comes to -them-, it’s a different story. though, when parents are ridiculous like that (and are hypocritical, non-sensical, and just all-around hard to deal with), the best thing to do really is to not let it get to you too deeply. be frustrated, but dont let it haunt you. after all, you know they’re being ridiculous. just because they’re not receptive to what you have to say doesnt make them any less ridiculous.

though i would be pissed if my parents threatened to kick out my squeeze for no real reason except possibly to get to me.

best of luck to you, though.