Just a quick reminder that:

Not all trans people want surgery

Not all trans people want to take hormones

Not all trans men like women

Not all trans women like men

Not all trans people are romantically/sexually interested in others

Some trans folk like to cross-dress opposite of the gender they identify with

All kinds of people have their own definition of what is and isn't masculine and feminine and even then they don't always stick within those lines

Every trans person has their own definition of transgender/transexual that reflects who they are and their experiences

You do not get to define what being trans is for someone else