I’ve expressed my frustration before with fanon Lance and how I feel like that’s not really canon, but, after looking over a lot of the popular trends:
Leader and good Black Paladin candidate
Struggles asking for help, tends to hide issues behind a confident, charismatic facade especially because he doesn’t want to worry the team
A facade that is not often seen through, leaving said issues sometimes chronically unaddressed
Highly talented in multiple fields
Handsome
Experiences profound trauma and loss, to the point of physical mutilation/loss of body parts
Conflicts with the team at times
Sensitive, prone to overthinking
Profound sense of lack of worthiness that bars him from embracing things he’s rightfully connected to (like the Black Lion)
I think that I owe people an apology, because all of that actually is supported by and present in canon.