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Filed under: yikes, get a new girlfriend, doubleyikes

A classic example of what abusive behavior in women can look like. This isn’t cute or sweet or just for anyone’s own good, this is controlling.

Young gents (and wlw and nb folks interested in ladies), if your girlfriend or prospective girlfriend presents you a list like this (especially in writing), you crumple that shit up, drop it at her feet, remind her that you are not property, and walk away.

This shit isn’t funny or cute when a man does it to a woman; do not tolerate it just because it’s coming from a woman.

This reads like that stalker list that one dude in that shitty greyscale book gave to someone that everyone agreed was bad and horrible.

I’m the girlfriend tbh. I have this kind of controlling behavior because ?? I get so easily pissed and I have major trust issues. Girls aren’t this controlling to be “cute and quirky.” These people have mental issues keeping them from being able to have a normal, healthy relationship.
Don’t bash girls like this please. It fucks me up just as much as it fucks my s/o up. Even more so tbh. And then we have people who shit on us because we are like this. How are we supposed to get help when people just think we do it for shits and giggles

Some people???? Abuse?? Their significant others??? To cope???

Abuser plays victim, then uses their victim’s victimhood for even more victim points.

Yeah no behavior like this is never acceptable. A red flag to end any potential relationship.

“These people have mental issues keeping them from being able to have a normal, healthy relationship.”
“How are we supposed to get help when people just think we do it for shits and giggles?  

 then you  shouldn’t???? be in a relationship???? you should actually get help and stop trying to be in relationships until you’ve gotten yourself straightened out since you’re fully aware your behavior is abusive and unacceptable and bad?????? there’s literally no excuse like….omg just how can you even try to justify this garbage???

There is no excuse for abusive behavior like this.

If a man did this, it would be rightfully seen as abusive and controlling.

So why would it be okay for a woman to do this?