neurotypicals who use fidgets and stim toys because they find them personally helpful: YAY
neurotypicals who use fidgets and stim toys but treat them like their only purpose is to do cool tricks and have fun and subsequently treat the ones they find less fun as pointless: NAY
may I add a thing?
neurotypicals that use fidgets and stim toys because they think they’re cool but then shame neurodivergent people for stims like flapping and rocking and chewing: NAY