something’s that’s not talked about enough is that straight girls can fetishize lesbians too. i had a really really close friend when i was 15/16 who literally got off on the fact that i was gay and could hypothetically have a crush on her and she would constantly send me messages / snapchats all the time where i would sit there questioning if she was hitting on me but she was really just a straight girl who lived for my attention and wanted me to pine after her so bad. i jokingly told her i had a crush on her before we became friends and she never let it go and always brought it up and she literally got off on the fact that people shipped us on here or whatever. i see this all over too over and over again i see straight girls try to string along lesbians because they love the idea that a lesbian would like them and it’s so gross