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littlebluecaboose:

bidiskhorse:

redeyedbastard:

Ace/Aro discourse makes me so uncomfortable because like, it’s just the same bullshit that got thrown at me as a bi woman but with a different paint job.

  • “How can you be sure you’re bi ace/aro if you haven’t experimented?”
  • “We support bi ace/aro people, buuut only if they’re a very specific type of bi ace/aro.”
  • “Sure, bi ace/aro people are valid, they just don’t belong in the LGBT+ community”
  • “But the issue is bi ace/aro people are taking up resources from real LGBT+ people!”
  • “It’s just a phase!”
  • “Look, bi ace/aro people aren’t really marginalized. Any issues they face are just misdirected homo/transphobia.”
  • Bi Trans Ace/Aro people are just our oppressors trying to invade our spaces!”

You aren’t that slick, fuck off into the slime pit that is biphobes, terfs, and other assholes.

I’d like to add:

  • “Okay but everyone is a little bit bi ace/aro – that description literally applies to all of us!” (said especially about demi people)
  • “People only think and say they’re bi ace/aro if they have internalized homophobia…”
  • “It’s just a placeholder identity!”
  • “Being bi ace/aro doesn’t exist, everyone picks a side eventually!”

Also, if you’re trans or bi and aphobic and you feel uncomfortable at being compared to these kinds of people: GOOD. You should feel uncomfortable. You should feel bad.




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  4. soleciri said: Oh yeah I know they don’t agree! I know they were pointing those out as shitty things. When I said I agreed with their points I meant I agreed with them pointing it out shitty things
  5. demonicduckofsomesort reblogged this from soleciri and added:
    Sophie, I didn’t post this as ace discourse, I posted it as bi discourse (I’m guessing Nora did too). I tend to...
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  8. soleciri said: @selvathequeen you’re good! I’ll text you reassurances you’re good bc the tumblr comments function is terribly designed and not good for communicating
  9. selvathequeen said: (if you want me to delete the post, I will) (not trying to guilt trip, just, you know, hoping to rectify involvement, because you don’t like the Discourse all too much)
  10. selvathequeen said: Honestly this is completely fair I wanted to put this out there because I do think it needed to be said I feel like having more space for a-spec people who want it (that’s a very big caveat) can’t be negative But that you also don’t have to be super involved in the LGBT+ community if you feel like you’re taking away resources I am not a spec, so I recognize I don’t have personal insight on this issue, and I’m sorry I made you uncomfortable by weighing in
  11. soleciri reblogged this from selvathequeen and added:
    i…I know I don’t want to do Ace/Aro Discourse in the way where people tag it and want people to respond to it and want...
  12. soleciri said: how did you find this…what are you searching…and why would you choose to get involved in a-spec discourse
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    I’m aroace and to be honest I’m never hundred percent sure. The thing is it’s how determine your sexuality and romantic...
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