Disagree. People can still genuinely care about you, like you, and want to be with you, but everyone also has their own lives, struggles, and obligations. It’s extremely unfair and unreasonable to make a loyalty test out of whether or not they drop everything for you whenever you snap your fingers.

Of course it is important to find people who support you when you need it, would try their best to help in an emergency, and enjoys your company, but nobody is capable of being your 24/7 emotional emergency responder. That doesn’t mean they don’t care or don’t want to see you; and remember, part of a good friendship/relationship is that you support and encourage them in their own lives (which includes giving people space to pursue their goals), just as much as they support and encourage you in yours.