think-long-and-hard-about-your-feelings-and-those-of-your-partner-and-consider-whether-its-really-fair-on-both-of-you-to-continue-this-relationship-if-you-have-feelings-for-someone-else-that-you-really-cant-ignore-and-then-gently-tell-them-that-you-think-it-may-be-better-if-the-two-of-you-split-up-not-because-of-them-but-because-your-ideas-of-what-you-want-for-a-relationship-have-changed-and-the-last-thing-you-want-to-do-is-to-disrespect-and-hurt-your-partner-so-you-wanted-to-be-honest-with-them-and-then-after-that-do-what-you-want-when-there’s-no-one’s-trust-to-be-broken

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