thisisntgoodbi

I’m seeing a lot of people talking about Rebecca Sugar coming out like, “lmao did anybody think she was straight?”

Please don’t do this. Coming out can be one of the hardest things a person does, even when they play it off like it isn’t a big deal, especially given the circumstances Rebecca was under. Making jokes about how she was ~basically already out~ or that ~it was obvious~ is incredibly trivializing of the decision she felt she had to make, and furthermore becomes a serious issue of bi visibility and erasure when her coming out is met with remarks that sound an awful lot like, “Knowing she wasn’t straight was enough, we didn’t need to know she was bi.”

Just, please. Reconsider the way you’re talking about this.

goodbye-good-bi

And tbh if you’re not bi, you have no idea how big a deal it is that she actually SAID bi

vaspider

@dadhoc, we talked about this the other day!