something im curious about is whether other people consider shushing rude or not. in my household i was raised to find shushing, without a ‘sorry’ or a reason attached, or without it being super-soft and non-confrontational, the height of rudeness. like, saying ‘please be quiet’ and a reason was the way to go and if you shushed someone you were being extraordinarily impolite, maybe even mean. i’d definitely get in trouble for it if i ever did.

but it seems like that’s not the case for other people? is that common? i’m really curious as to how many people think its rude or not?

lies in bed staring at ceilingwhy am i making a post like this at nearly 12pmwhy am i in bed at nearly 12pm??