I hope y’all treat her like y’all do CB ‘cause… -.-

watch white feminists ignore this cause she’s a pretty white girl

you know what? this is an important story. domestic violence is important. realising that men can be victims is important. realising that women can be abusers is important.
but i’m so fucking sick of the fact that each and every post handling such an issue has tons of comments saying “feminists are going to ignore this” and “nobody will reblog this anyway because it’s about a man suffering”. no, fuck you. yeah, there’s many problems with mainstream feminism and i agree that there are parts that will not take something like this seriously. but the real reason why society thinks men who are abused by women are weak or deserve it or whatever is because patriarchy teaches us that women are too feeble to cause harm and real men won’t let a woman hurt them. all of this is based on tropes of toxic masculinity and sexism. the people who care about male victims of domestic violence are feminists. the people who want to change these things are feminists. stop blaming the whole movement for those who do feminism wrong and start blaming the patriarchy. also look at the fucking notes and tell me again no one cares. then stop guilt-tripping people for being white feminists or not as inclusive or intersectional as you want them to be. guilt-tripping is emotional manipulation and an abusive tactic. use reason instead. stop pretending those who are affected by society’s ill views are the root of the problem. blaming women for the stigma on female-on-male violence is a strawman argument. if you want to change the life of male victims of abuse, stop toxic masculinity, not female empowerment. fucking hell tumblr.