there’s a post that’s like “its amazing how much you can get done if you just sit down and focus” with a second comment thats like “imagine being nt” and it has like thousands of notes but the op has adhd and was talking about how their meds were working really well
there’s another post that’s like “how do you block gay men on okcupid” or something with a reply like “have you tried christianmingle” and it has thousands of notes but the op was a trans girl who wanted to avoid chasers
there’s another post that’s like “date a quiet boy who will bring you a glass of water in the middle of the night” with a reply making fun of her “low standards” that has thousands of notes but the op was a teenage girl who was in an abusive relationship at the time that she made that post (and the reply was made by a grown man who had to apparently had to dig through months of this girl’s posts to find that one post & make fun of her for it so: yuck)
point is, can we please stop making these assumptions about total strangers on this site, harassing them over innocuous posts they’ve made that have been misinterpreted by literal hordes of random people and unless somebody’s being outright hateful and disrespectful can we leave each other alone and mind our own business lmao
please just try to remember that every post you see on your dash was made by a real person, a whole person with a whole life you haven’t seen, they’re not just some stereotype or target or a reference to something in your life. have some perspective. have some kindness.
My dad just told me that halfway through his last year of high school, he officially became an adult, so whenever he played hooky he’d give the teacher a note the next day reading, “Wes couldn’t be here yesterday because he was feeling poorly.” and sign it with his own name.
date a guy who is handsome and can draw date a guy who is a hero to the galaxy date a guy who praises the ground you walk on date a guy who loves you more than anything date a guy who would commit mass murder and betrayal for you date Anakin Skywalker
it’s funny to me that white men systematically raped black women for hundreds of years, now if one of our children dates their daughter, they talking about “lifestyle choices”