just realized that sonicforrealjustice is still active and theres like none of the original mods but theres also drama still as of even days ago this is great terrible

universi-tea:

thequantumqueer:

thequantumqueer:

universi-tea:

i think one of the biggest problems i have with getting stuff done is i assume it’s easy for other people. like “she gets up at six every morning because she’s a morning person” or “yeah, he can run five miles every day but he likes running” or “she knows five languages, her brains just wired differently than mine” when in reality it’s all about discipline for everyone. like yeah, some people have natural aptitudes for some things but anyone that’s accomplishing anything is putting in the work. achievements don’t come easy, and i think if i start acknowledging that it’s like that for everyone i can stop making excuses

“she gets up at six every morning because she doesn’t wake up already exhausted and in pain”

“he can run five miles every day but he doesn’t need a cane to walk more than a few yards at a time”

“she knows five languages, her brain doesn’t usually forget what she was saying in mid-sentence “

discipline only does so much

also, one of the most difficult things to deal with about being neurodivergent is the assumption that “it’s like that for everyone”

I just wanna clarify something about this post: this wasn’t written to get reblogs. I was just sharing how this can often be my mindset, when in reality there’s nothing stopping me from doing those things except my lazy self. When people stated reblogging this, I sort of cringed when I thought about how this could come off for those with disabilities that legitimately can’t do these things, no matter how much they want to. 

If you are facing any sort of disability, the last thing I want is for you to feel like this post is saying you’re just not trying hard enough. You are enough, always. Even if you can’t run, or learn languages, or manage to get out of bed at all some days. You are doing a great job, and I’m really really proud of you.  

when he thinks youre hating trying to see if his skin is purple

but youre really just gay

andhumanslovedstories:

arrowhearts:

andhumanslovedstories:

Time spent by Merle deciding whether to forget the birth of his children: 0 seconds

Time spent by Magnus deciding whether to forget the memory of the man who killed his wife and destroyed his home: a few minutes

Time spent by Taako deciding whether to become slightly less hot: about two years

What’s important to me in all this is Magnus’ complete acceptance of Taako’s struggle.

Taako: [after learning he has to decide whether to become less hot] [5 more seconds of complete silence] I just don’t….I know I need to make a decision here. It’s just, you know-it’s a tough one, right?

Griffin: You say to one-eyed Merle and Magnus who just forgot the killers of his-

Magnus: No-no listen, everybody’s battle’s are their own and I’m not going to sit here and tell Taako who’s struggle is worse or less than mine.

Taako/Justin: Taako’s also not a good person? Like Taako is not a good person–

Magnus/Travis: Yeah, but I feel I know Taako well enough by this point to know how hard this must be for him. I understand if this is too much and I’ll take two [penalty] spins if this is too much.

Genuinely I loved this so much, Magnus is straight up the sweetest, the nicest, the most heroic of the boys, he’s the friend with an instagram of nothing except dogs he saw on the street and comments on all of taako’s selfies like “you look good today!”

so-many-miles-to-go:

geekycupcake:

hey my chronically ill pals!

i just wanna remind all of you that resting is NOT a waste of time!!! lying in bed/watching movies/sleeping/whatever you do to rest is not a waste of time!!!! resting is just as integral to managing your symptoms as taking your medication!!!  you are not “doing nothing” when you’re resting - you’re actively working to manage your symptoms and take care of your health!!!  don’t feel guilty for resting - it’s necessary and good!!! xoxo

Our perceived inactivity is not laziness. 

It is important self care.

jt7755:

kelleyelizabet:

sex scene = the audience is uncomfortable and learns nothing 

Sax scene= the audience is impressed and learns love for the saxophone

phosphoruscentipede:

theangrybi:

emoteddybae:

spacexualkids:

no offense but yall gotta stop acting like its the end of the world if a bi girl ends up with a guy

but then there’s no cute lesbian-ness and that’s what makes it so gr8

Bisexual women are not lesbians, and do not choose their partners based on how appealing they are to you, you gross fuck

the woody collective got them fholy shit

Stop telling your Black friends about the antiblack shit your friends and family say and do if you never plan on checking them.. and even then.. chill the fuck out. We are not diaries or a void you can unleash your guilt filled anecdotes into.

badgyal-k:

empiricalemploy:

is this ok to reblog if you’re not black?

Yes. It is meant for non black people to read and reblog quietly. Thank you for asking.