is being cautiously optimistic about university

waiting for the punchline

Reasons why I need the A in LGBTIAQ to stand for Asexual, not Ally

defira85:

Because my mother told me that all I needed to do was get drunk and lie back and let me husband have his fun. Because if I was drunk, I’d be more relaxed and it’d be over sooner

Because my sister told me that I was trapping my husband in an abusive marriage, and that one day he was going to leave me

Because both of them looked at me in disgust

Because my asexuality is considered to be as great a crime against my husband as a woman who has affairs and cheats on her husband

Because my cousin didn’t even try to understand, and just kept asking ‘but what about in five years? how will you feel then?’

Because I was so afraid of my body and so afraid of sex that I didn’t seek medical help for a legitimate question for over a year for fear of being labelled a deviant or something broken

Because I still ask myself at least once every day if my husband wouldn’t be better off without me

Because I still ask myself at least once every day if I’m broken

Because I still tell myself at least once every day that I’m pathetic and useless and an abnormality

Because I love my husband with every fibre of my being, but everywhere I turn I’m told I really don’t, because love = sex

I need A to stand for Asexual because nobody ever talked to me about asexuality even when I was an outpatient at the women’s hospital for 18 months, and everyone told me desire would come in time

I need A to stand for Asexual because we are literally invisible, and so unimportant that people assume we don’t even need representation, because everyone assumes our lives must be bland and unimportant and lacking in challenges or bigotry

For every asexual that wants a relationship, for every asexual that does not want a relationship, for every asexual who has not yet come to terms with their identity, for every asexual who was told we were abnormalities, for every asexual who was told we just weren’t doing sex right, that we needed a good fucking, that we needed to be drunk, that we needed to relax, that we needed to be raped

We need representation, and we need visibility

That is why the A needs to stand for Asexual, and never for Ally

breakmyelectraheart:

my-laptop-is-warm:

stilesstillnski:

i literally say fuck so often i’m starting to think we need a new word that’s more offensive than fuck

double fuck

CLOSES ADOBE AFTER EFFECTS WITH A MANIACAL LAUGH AND A FUCK YOU

thinking back on people you knew before homestuck and realizing that you were waxing black for them

tacentdisease:

mineapple:

tacentdisease:

wereguvnah:

tacentdisease:

tacentdisease:

_{wip alert omg}

I keep trying to make Tealvros’ sprite and I just can’t do this without stopping and laughing because

look at his little toes.
Look at his tight-as-shit jeans.
Look at that smug ass little smile.
Look at this fucking nerd.

One of my friends made me draw a bulge on him.

Oh my god.

Can you swap those to Aviators?

Nah man, the aviators look dumb. They already completely swamp Jane Strider’s face.

Besides.

His are drawn circular anyway.

oh look now hes cut in half so you dont need to worry about drawing a bulge >:p

IF I RIP OFF HIS ARMS, THEN I DON’T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT DRAWING THEM EITHER oh wait sprite mode doesn’t have arms anyway.

Looks like I was beaten to the punch.

pfft

beaten to the PUNCH

i guess hussie has been keeping you at

arm’s length

B)))

HI FIVE

oh wait