sometimes i wish i was still in school so when faced with someone who keeps insisting that something false is actually true, i can just call the teacher down on their ass so they shut the fuck up once and for all
YOU NEED FEMINISM BECAUSE OF THIS. The view that men are only savage wild beasts is perpetuated because of patriarchal rule. Feminism is trying to change that. We don’t believe that.
the biggest thing I have a problem with about social justice bloggers is
we’re not all from the US
we don’t all experience things the same way as you do
and we don’t have the same culture as you do
some places don’t have anything like white privilege but there’s still racism
some places have racism as in whites against whites or blacks against blacks for cultural differences
can you stop assuming everything is like in the US
I mean, yeah, we can try not to generalize worldwide, but telling us to stop talking about specific privileges and oppressions common to our country takes steam out of OUR movement. White privilege is still heavily prevalent in North America, and we have to start with where /we/ live. If you want the privileges and oppressions specific to YOUR country to come to light, YOU have to talk about them, because WE can’t. All we can know is what goes on here and how to fix it. All we can do is lend you support.
except what you guys do isnt that
instead you shit on absolutely anyone who talks about that, you bash them, using american centered point of view and refusing to accept that things are plainly different somewhere else
a very good example would be the “love is love” campaign from italy. it was absolutely shat upon by you americans because it didn’t feature black people, despite the fact that finding a black person in italy is literally like trying to win a fucking lottery
no one is telling you you can’t talk about those specific things, the problem starts when you force your own american centered view on situations that won’t make sense if you don’t try to look at it from the other side
you need to do exactly as you said, stop generalazing the entire goddamn world, because you know, it furthers the goddamn stereotype that americans think that entire world IS america
that’s why people are pissed off
you never lend any sort of support, you just shit on people for explaining that things are plainly different somewhere else
and then you ironically tell us to start talking about things that happen in our country first
We hope that you will join us and our partners at 1 in 6 and A Call to Men on this very, very important iniative. Again, to learn more visit men.joyfulheartfoundation.org. Thank you. (x)
Egalitarianism for the win!!!
they heard us?! oh my god!!
It sure reads EXACTLY like how a MRA would have written it.
"One: Buy condoms. Buy them and keep them with you at all times, and use them before you are asked to use them. And use them every time. The peace of mind you allow your partner will free her to be vulnerable with you, and that, my son, is exactly what sex is about. Condoms are sexy. In fact, call buying condoms foreplay. (Footnote: If you are too embarrassed to buy condoms, you are not ready to have sex.)
Two: Kissing is not merely foreplay. Spend entire evenings making out on the couch while fully clothed. Believe me, dry-humping rocks.
Three: Sex is not just about friction. It’s about emotion. Stop trying to find her clitoris and find her heart. Because then she’ll help you find her clitoris.
Four: If you really wanna know how to please a woman, ask her how she masturbates. Then do that. A lot. If she claims she doesn’t masturbate, offer to take her shopping for a vibrator so you can both learn the vocabulary of her body together.
Five: Don’t put anything in her butthole you wouldn’t want in your own. (Footnote: Try a pinky finger, it’s kinda awesome.)
Six: When you go down on her—and you will go down on her, and if you are my son, you will be amazing at it—tell her how good she tastes. Stop in the middle and kiss her deeply so she knows how good she tastes. Do the same when she goes down on you.
Seven: A simple Google search will yield 1,327 euphemisms for male masturbation, yet only 23 for female masturbation. If guys spent less time jacking off and more time jilling off, this world would be a happier place.
Eight: Everything you need to know about the importance of the clitoris is in the movie Star Wars. You are Luke Skywalker piloting your penis-shaped X-Wing Fighter deep inside her trench. Remember: seventy percent of all Death Stars cannot be blown up through penetration of the trench alone. It must be through focused contact with that little exhaust port at the top of the trench. Otherwise, any explosions you experience will be merely Hollywood special effects.
Nine: Just because you come doesn’t mean she has, so don’t you dare come before her. Focus completely on your partner. Don’t worry about gettin’ yours, you’re a guy. You always get yours. Your job is to make sure she’s gettin’ hers.
Ten: If sex with your partner lasts no longer than this poem, you are not making love. You are masturbating with her body instead of your hand. Shame on you. Go back to step one. You’ve got a lot of learning to do.
Love, Dad."
