thedramaticmurderer:

Ways to combat casual transphobia and cissexism: 

• Do not gender strangers. Refer to people you do not know with gender neutral pronouns so as to avoid furthering the idea that appearance = gender. 
• Ask people what their preferred pronouns are when you first meet them. 
• Shut down people who say that genitals = gender. 
• Shut down people who use the phrases “two genders” or “opposite gender.” 
• Also shut down people who use the phrases “two sexes” or “opposite sex” to help our intersex siblings. 
• Avoid using phrases like “manboobs,” “mangina,” and “girl/woman boner.” 
• Discourage misgendering as a form of mocking or insult. Also discourage the usage of phrases like “you look like a boy/girl.” 
• Encourage others to also do these things. 

tvgropes:

(◡‿◡✿)

(◡‿◡✿)

(◡‿◡✿)

(⊙︿⊙✿) WAIT I HAD HOMEWORK

the-plaid-princess:

When your pet adjusts their position so they can lay their head on you

joutei:

jpgay:

we’ve all had crushes we very strongly regret

daftlypunk:

when you choose the wrong dialogue option

yzma:

the real joke is that they had to use a video player that wasn’t their own

asymptomatics:

Guys, if any of you have any triggers you want me to tag please tell me. 

• I don’t care if it’s embarrassing
• That’s why anon exists
• I will literally tag whatever triggers you have
• Especially if it’s a phobia 

Men want us to kiss them with beards, suck their dicks and kiss their balls with pubes, hug them with hairy arm pits, intwine our legs with hairy thighs, but if women have one hair on our body that isn’t on our head it’s disgusting

i checked some of the other notes for that triggerwarning for the tumblr pro video post and i shouldnt have

i dont know what i was expecting

But it does bear saying:

vastderp:

I see the old ”you disagree with me so I will now misgender you as an insult” chestnut a lot on Tumblr. And gee, what a strange coincidence, the gender they pick just happens to be the one that gets you the Bad End whenever you play Tumblrquest! I get declared “cis”, every time, to the point where I put a joke about it in my other blog’s sidebar. How mysterious!

Why, it’s almost as if you can have your trans card revoked at any time ‘round these parts, just for having a viewpoint other people dislike. That seems totally fair and I feel totally safe in an environment that allows this kind of thing to go on in the name of social justice.

(We can scrub and scrub but those little flecks of transphobia lurking in the dark cracks never seem to come all the way out, do they?)

[origingally posted as a reply to a dipstick, but then i realized the poster was not speaking to seebs and that the person they were talking to had their gender listed on their blog, but it happens, and it happens a lot, so I figured I’d still say it elsewhere.]